I have noticed with both of my whopping 2 serious relationships in my life, that they wasted no time to replace me! They never cheated.. but the first girl they met.... boom they're in a serious relationship with them. I know their rebounds, but my the last guy I was married to for 5 years and was with him for a total of 9 years. Six months after we separated he met her, a few weeks later they were a couple, 2 months later they moved in with each other, 4 months later their pregnant and then on their one year anniversary they get engaged... Am I missing something??? I am in no position to jump into anything. I want to make sure its the right one, and not to make the same mistakes again. He didn't care obviously, he just was glad a girl liked him. I have learned what I don't want in a man and what I DO want. I am working on bettering myself, and fixing my faults. It takes two to make a marriage work, I take responsibility for my part of the marriage not working out... but I have not been impulsive or anything and I realize how precious time is, and I use my time in a wise manner. I want him to be happy, but I do feel like he has made some poor choices after having such a long term relationship/marriage.
I think the best thing about mistakes.. is learning from them and changing for the better! Getting through the hardships and becoming a stronger person! I do think that my ex husband is happy and is a wonderful father!! He would not have his little girl if we stayed together, seeing as we had some miscarriages.. it put quite the strain on us. But I think that everyone has a path in this life. I am going to focus on my life and where I go! I can't worry about anyone else's life choices, only my own. I am constantly working on myself and making "Katie" a better person. We all have things to work on, and I am grateful for the misfortune in my life, because without it, I would not look at life the way I do now. I appreciate life lessons, and I want to do so many wonderful things!!
Actions speak louder then words, and I am going to pave my path and do everything I have to, to have a good fulfilling life! I am such a strong women now, and Im proud for how far I have come emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
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